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I needed time alone, fully immersed in my own life, fully appreciating my body and its innate sensuality. Forget Sting. If this is tantra, I want more of it. Sex or spirituality: What is tantra? It is said to be the oldest Eastern tradition of spiritual philosophy and practice, originating more than 5, years ago in India. It is about Professional wm seeking single moms.
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The theory goes that the universe was once blissfully united, symbolised by the endless joyous intercourse of the god Lady want sex tonight IL Streamwood 60107 and the goddess Shakti.
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